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![]() A conversation i had with a fellow member recently:
I don't think the site is the problem, it's a place to help people, some of the members have been on for a long time some take breaks and reemerge every few months and some are avid and live search religiously. For the most part for me I am the same, been on the forums long enough. At one point I walked away for 8 months. There wasn't much difference when I revisited. Times change and so does the hobby. I feel overwhelmed sometimes with so much coral. While I do enjoy looking at corals sometimes I need a break The problems is self inflictedWhen you get so consumed into a product then you are reliant on the next quick fix, which is for most of us corals. They are like gardens, some can keep it lush others not so much, it's the coral thumb. All the problems caused is self error do you think due to the hobby some people want to go out and travel but can't? As the weather gets better we find ourselves packing the lawn chairs and camping gear to get some of the wonderful outdoors we pay so dearly for* Yes as the weather is nice people don't visit the forums as much Forsure man, I don't want to go for vacation because 12k in corals need to be tended to But there comes a time when we all need to fly, the menautiny (not sure if I spelled it correct) of same same gets boring, we as humans need challenge that is what keeps us ticking so vacations or changing things up becomes second natureSent from Samsung Mobile |
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I've only been in the hobby a few years, and got to experience first hand some of the bad advice that is often doled out to newbies. Fortunately, I was able to sift out much of the bad information, and who to trust and who not to, and eventually learned from my own experiences. But I have also seen a lot of frustrated new hobbyists call it quits after a couple years (or less) because of various problems and unfulfilled expectations due to bad advice. There are some common debate topics, though, including managing water parameters, nutrients, pest control, disease, lighting, and coral growth. Even seemingly simple tasks such as what test kits to use and how, can bring out a lot of opposing opinions. Of course there is more than one way to be successful, and there is always opportunity to experiment and learn about new methods. And some things are just personal preference. But quite often, too, old myths live on, and the same mistakes are made over and over. So how does one try to decipher all these various opinions, and decide what is best for you? Well, you can go with popular opinion, but is that always the best? Forums (not just this one) are full of people that want to help. But often much of that advice is based on 2nd or 3rd hand information from other posts or articles, and not necessarily fact. With myself, I look at the experience and success of the one giving advice. Are they just spouting popular opinion, or are they describing the facts of their own experience with respect to a particular topic or question? I think this is very important. It's certainly OK to quote others and reference articles. But how do they apply that knowledge to their own experiences? I think the best way to do that is look at hobbyist's tank journals, or their posting history. What problems or issues have they dealt with? What were their successes and failures? Are they speaking from direct experience, or are they just quick to express their opinions? To me, that is most telling. Unfortunately, though, I have found that many of the most successful hobbyists are also the least quick to give advice or express their opinions. I am not sure if that is just their nature, or if they have just gotten tired of giving the same advice, and being ignored or not being appreciated. I suspect some of the latter may be the case. I should mention, too, that I also participate in aircraft building and flying forums, which is another hobby of mine. And there, too, I often see bad advice, which sometimes can even be downright dangerous. But in the end, success can be determined by the end product and performance of the completed aircraft. So, I think the same criteria to evaluate advice can be applied to many hobbies and forums, or indeed to many decisions in everyday life. And popular opinion is not always correct,... IMHO,...LOL.
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![]() And that my friend is just good advice ,well done Walter
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![]() Thanks, Harry. Am surprised actually there hasn't been more discussion on this topic. I just explored one aspect of forums, but I think the OP was looking for other issues or effects.
How much time do you spend at work reading these forums? What do your co-workers think of that?... Or your boss... haha. Why do people participate on forums? To learn,... or to gloat...., or sell frags... haha. And vendors, surprised more don't participate on forums, like Denny at Concept. Has to be good for business... Come on guys, he's a student, and looking for material for his paper.... Help him out...
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![]() I appreciate your help so much reef pilot. Like you were saying theres so many aspects that can be illustrated, the amount of time we spend on this forum for various reasons is exponential.
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![]() I didnt want to post questions because it creates bias but I guess I have to
![]() How much time do you spend at work reading these forums? What do your co-workers think of that?... Or your boss? Why do people participate on forums? To learn,... or to gloat...., or sell frags? Does your wife support you or not? what does your chidren think about your hobby? Have you ever been ridiculed/ made fun of, because of your hobby by other people? has spending money on your aquarium caused serious financial problems? Has meeting anyone on canreef caused you problems? Hopefully this stirs up some debate Thanx guys |
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Hope that helps. Anthony. |