Lately, things are a bit hostile in the forum!

[Aquattro]

Originally Posted by Nano

I hear ya raied I was recently told via pm that I have no business being here cause I don't currently have a tank.

Reporting such things to staff might be a good idea. Then staff can get hostile too

[mrhasan]

Originally Posted by The Grizz

Everybody has there own idea of what things are worth, some of us that have been in the hobby for a while usuall ask half of what items are worth new. Then there is the fact that everyone has there own opinion weither right or wrong but the hostility is just the way this world seems to be going.

Yah....hostility everywhere

Originally Posted by Nano

I hear ya raied I was recently told via pm that I have no business being here cause I don't currently have a tank. Among other "nice" things. The way I look at it is if you don't feed into it people just quit. Theyre desperate for any interaction be it positive or negative. I just try to ignore it. I may banter back once or twice but then I think are they worth it? No they aren't.

Ops that sucks

I try to resist from posting in controversial posts but sometimes, my posts itself becomes controversial

Originally Posted by Nano

I blame video games

That's a positive! I miss mario days!

[Nano]

Originally Posted by Aquattro

Reporting such things to staff might be a good idea. Then staff can get hostile too

Yeah but banned people don't stay banned so I'm not concerned about it

[ScubaSteve]

Hasan-man, it is seasonal. If I was a better coder I'd be able to root thought the archives to show the "temperature" of the forum with time. It does seem things tend to boil over certain times of the year. Maybe the changing weather has people's panties in a bunch?

I think this is also an Internet effect. It's much easier to be a total dink from behind the anonymity of a keyboard. Had a ****ty day? Really easy to vent online at someone, give it a try! Seriously, it's a lot easier to talk **** at someone when you're not looking them in the eyes, you don't have that same mental filter that says "Hey, maybe I shouldn't say this" or "Hmmm, this might sound harsh". Unfortunately this is pretty common on the Internet, and our beloved forum is no different.

Debate is fine, and even encouraged - that's how we can root out some interesting discussions that can further the hobby. Unfortunately there are a few that drag it down to petty name calling because they think their thoughts are the only way, or they are misinformed and battle to the end over information they didn't stop to question, or have some weird need to always be right... The list goes on. The fact that people send out threatening PMs (and I've got them before too) is pretty sad.

We're lucky that we don't have a totalitarian forum like some other Reef Centered sites out there but there are certainly a few members around here that make that system a valid argument.

[ScubaSteve]

This is a pretty good video that I think should be a requisite to watch before being allowed on the forum

[mike31154]

Interesting vid, but this is 'saltwater'.... well, for the most part anyhow...