Adding new Bangaii to existing one

[Myka]

That's what I was thinking too. She's just being a nasty cow instead of a splendid Bangaii! I am positive the existing one is a female since I could tell my breeding pair apart from each other, and I know the Bubble coral at the male. If anything the new one may be female, so it's possible I have two females, but the new one does look male. Who knows, it can be difficult with these guys. My female is so distracted with harassing the new male in the container that she's not eating either.

[Carmen]

I had a problem with 2 wrasses much like what you are having. Original wrasse chased the ne one til he hid and could NEVER come out. I removed the initial wrasse and put him in the sump for 3 days to allow the newbie a chance to settle in and start eating. Then reintroduced the original and never had a problem after that.
You could try that but there are no guarantees I suppose that the move wouldn't totally stress the original Bangaai.
This way though it gives the "weaker" newbie a chance to establish his territory before she is added back. She will have likely forgotten her "territory" and be more likely to accept him.
Good Luck.

[i have crabs]

you usually can tell easily by the jaw once you know the difference, its very slight but once their older its easy to tell

[Myka]

Carmen, good idea! I will try that. I think that's a better idea than moving them into a 10 gallon.

i have crabs: I know how to tell the difference, you're right that it's usually fairly easy provided they are well mature. The problem is that with Bangaiis all being captive bred now you don't usually find mature specimens in the store. They are usually still juveniles that aren't mature enough to show their sex. The one I bought is a bit bigger than usual store size, and looks like it could be developing a larger jawline, but he's not big enough for a positive ID. I'm not 100% convinced it's a male.

[Myka]

Ok, I changed the fishies around. The female is in the container now. Now that she's in the container, and I can get a good look at her (she always hides in the tank so tough to look) I'm starting to question her femininity!!

When my breeding pair was still together and I could only see one at a time it was tough to tell if it was the male or the female, but when they were side by side it was easier, although not astoundingly obvious. So now I'm questioning myself. Oi!

EDIT: I just went back and looked at pics I had of my breeding pair, and compared the spots on the one that's left...and IT'S THE MALE!!!!!!! Why didn't I think of doing that earlier???!! I'm pretty much totally unsure whether the new one is male or female. I'm leaning towards male...but at this point...

I am SOOOOOO mad at myself for not looking at pictures before to determine which one was eaten by the Bubble Coral. I have searched for the last 3 months for a new male for my "female", and it took quite a bit of screwing around to get this new one here. Oi!!!

Le Sigh.

[Zoaelite]

Keeping reef fish is like mixing unknown chemicals, you never know whats really going to happen. Will Bangaii's change sex like clown fish? If not perhaps you could keep it as a Polyandrous group by getting one female? I have never had luck with the Bangaii's so I'm just shooting some ideas out there for you. Could always try a trade in? What ever the solution is GL with it!
Levi

[Myka]

Thanks Levi! I wish it were as simple as them changing sex, but no they don't. They are born a certain sex, and they won't change. Two male Bangaiis will fight to the death. Two females "may" coexist peacefully, but that's kinda 50/50. A pair will coexist very well, and do much better as a mated pair than singly.