Thinking of a Lifestyle Change

Beverly · #1 04-07-2007, 01:11 AM

Epilogue....

While the guys loaded up the livestock in the new owner's van (parked in our underground parkade), I scraped the tank clean. When they got back, we siphoned out the last of the cruddy water.

At the very end, I used a clean cloth and hot tapwater to do a final wash inside the tank. It was very soothing to do after the teardown. Washing down the tank that way reminded me of how the family of the deceased would wash the body before burial. It was somehow very fitting to do this last loving thing to the glass that held our joy, our amazement, our frustrations, our sweat, love, respect and frustrations - yes, I know, I wrote that twice

I am at peace with letting go of my beloved 120g. I am at peace with the decision that we have taken a new road that will not ever have any type or size of aquaria along it.

I have many memories of various tanks we've had over the years. These memories will sustain me into old age - well, if I live that long

We have so much more space now. There is a completely different feeling to our home, one that will take some getting used to, but one I'm sure that will tell us we are still home.

Thank you to all on Canreef who helped me over the years. It has been a joy to get to know so many of you, both in person and online. You have been part of my extended family and, even though I will visit from time to time, I know I will miss you all.

Dang, and keep 'The Most Worthless Thread on Canreef' going! I may still hit 5,000 posts with that one

justinl · #2 04-07-2007, 02:20 AM

kudos to you bev. you better be back to hit that 5000!

Skimmerking · #3 04-07-2007, 02:44 AM

Well take care Bev have a good one good knowing you online and thanks for all the help over the last years pointing me in the right direction. I can still remember the Reef Party at Nemain's house AKA Beth. Where you called me Michael..

seems like just yesterday. and that was the summer of 2003..

take care have a good one........

andestang · #4 04-07-2007, 04:36 AM

Enjoyed all your videos

Best of luck in the future Bev. Sad to see another long time canreefer go.

G1GY · #5 04-07-2007, 06:29 AM

Sad to see you move on Bev.

I've always concidered all of your posts to be top of the pile. (Well the last one about washing a body and stuff kind of made me squirm.

)

I hope you keep posting here for a passtime.

*hugs Beverly*

Beverly · #6 04-07-2007, 03:11 PM

Michael,

Oh, I remember that party at Beth's! Can't believe it was so long ago.

Ande,

Glad you liked the videos. I truly enjoyed making them

Gary,

Thanks for the hugs, man

Hugs back to you

andsoitgoes · #7 04-07-2007, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Beverly

Michael,

Oh, I remember that party at Beth's! Can't believe it was so long ago.

Ande,

Glad you liked the videos. I truly enjoyed making them

Gary,

Thanks for the hugs, man

Hugs back to you

ta for now, Bev - Again, shame to see someone so integral to the hobby gone, but glad that it seems to be the right lifestyle change for you. You know what you're doing, and you will be missed, just don't forget that.

Take care, and just HAVE FUN!!!