10 Percent Surcharge has been cancelled

[howdy20012002]

It is funny how this has sparked a controversy.
It is getting to be counter-productive, so I am going to try to put this to rest.
What I have learnt out of this is that obviously I am too honest and trustworthy of people.
Number one mistake is that, yes, I was trusting of people when I had put my money away into a envelop into a money box on my counter. Obviously that was a big mistake and trust me, I paid dearly for it. Maybe I should start hiding my stereo system, the big screen TV, or my laptop when people come in so that they aren't tempted by that either.
Second, I was honest with people and told them that, because of this loss, I was going to temporary increase the prices to compensate for the loss. I would have obviously been better off to just increase the prices with no clear indication as to why.
If you think that places like big Al's don't have to compensate for theft with their pricing, you are living in a dream world. They just call it overheard verses what it is really for - theft of merchandise.
It is always about the bottom line, and let me tell ya, it wil probably take about 3 months for me to even break even again with this fish business because of this lodd.
I have 2 businesses and I work fulltime in the army. I spend the most amount of time on this fish stuff and yet I receive the least amount of compensation back for it.
I do this because I love this hobby.
Because of this love of this hobby, I am going to cancel the 10 Percent Surcharge. Thankfully I make more than enough money elsewhere that this isn't going to make me lose my house because the 1000.00 bucks was my mortgage payment.
Ultimately, this isn't about the money to me. (a thousand bucks ain't going to make or break me, which is why I am cancelling the surcharge.) It is about the fact that I have learnt that I can't trust people. It is about the fact that there is now a air of suspicion around people that shouldn't have it on them. That is what gets me.
thanks again for those that showed support and for those that showed me the opposite side of things as well. everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
BTW, as an aside.
1. Yes, I do have house insurance for a small business.
2. I did contact the police and was basically told that it wasn't worth the time to fill out the paperwork. They aren't going to fingerprint for a 1000.00 bucks and even that probably wouldn't show anything.
3. Anyone that did pay the 10 percent, I will compensate you that money back, just contact me and we will sort it out.
Anyhoos.
thanks for reading
Neal

[midgetwaiter]

Originally Posted by howdy20012002

It is funny how this has sparked a controversy.
It is getting to be counter-productive, so I am going to try to put this to rest.

One of life's most important lessons, if you give the yammer-heads something to yammer about it'll never end. I actually thought it was pretty cool that you were being so up front about the whole thing but wasn't especially surprised that it ended up how it did.

People need to realize that they pay a little bit more for everything they buy because of this kind of thing. Every retailer does it, they have no other recourse.

[Psyire]

Maybe setup a 'donation jar' or something similar at your counter or whatever. Have a note saying that it's an attempt to recover your $1000 dollar loss. You'd be surprised how many people would donate a few bucks. This would probably work out a lot better than a mandatory surcharge.

[Psyire]

...if everyone donates something... keep a close eye on the guy who dosen't. lol

[Osiris]

I have purchased before and was very happy with the prices and the quality of the things I bought. I would be more then willing to pay more, the prices are still way less then other places. The one thing is that as you said now days you never know who you can trust, but an envolope can be put in a pocket. A stereo or a big screen TV well they don't fit into your pants. As for what the Police said.. well i think being an honest tax payer they should have persued it anyways, not everyone can afford to just have it go missing, and you were ripped off. Don't get me wrong I have the Utmost respect for yourself and the service you provide in trying to make reef and saltwater keeping more affordable for everyone.

As for the person who did this i hope that they feel guilty for what they have done and hope they rott in hell.

UMM my 2 bits

[michika]

I agree with everyone that this person's act was shameful and it reflects badly upon them. Personally I am thankful and appreciative of Neil's honesty, I think it goes a long way in the end.

Thank you Neil, and I hope you make back your stolen cash quickly and painlessly!

[Jason McK]

So why the change of hart, I'm just curious.

J

[Johnny Reefer]

Originally Posted by Osiris

..... A stereo or a big screen TV well they don't fit into your pants. .....

No, but they could fit in a truck later. "Staking" the place out, I think is the term. This is one of the risks to inviting strangers into our homes. Do they really want that used filter for $40 or are they more interested in what else could be "had"? In this case....frags, not a filter was the "invite". I wonder if any of the six had been to the residence before, and knew the "layout".

Anyway...just a thought.

[howdy20012002]

The charge of heart was due to the fact that I hate having to justify myself.
It is pretty bad when I feel like the guilty one in this whole thing, but yea...i do.
good thing I love this stuff so much and am not in it for the money.
Neal