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[whonow]

this is now turning into an apology to the moderator thread??

[digital-audiophile]

Peharps my perception is skewed, but how is talking about LFS's in either good or bad ways, any different than debating the pros and cons of something, like say skimmers.

ie. - Coralife are the best! no they suck! Use Prizm! ... and so forth. Same sh** different pile if you ask me?

[christyf5]

Because I don't see Prizm or Coralife coming after us for slandering their product. A LFS owner on the other hand......

[saltynuts]

this is going to get ugly. i think the mods are doing a good job.
its hard to watch everyting when you have a life( please don,t take that the wrong way) i.e. job, kids. i must be a bad monday!
ad it is titus,s house his rules and thank you for letting us in

[Delphinus]

The theme of "why isn't this policy applied equally" is recurring. Again and again, it comes up. Well if you had this to say here, why didn't you say it there.

The only thing I can say is that I am only human, there are only so many hours in a day, I have a job and I have a family and I have 4 tanks to tend to. I cannot, and I will not, ever, be able to catch every thread. Point blank, I don't even READ every thread on this board any more. There was a time that I did, but it's simply not possible anymore.

I didn't catch the Riverfront thread until it was way into the 3rd page. At that point, I saw midgetwaiter had posted a reply from Riverfront's perspective. In the interest of "free speech" I wanted him (or her, I don't know who you are) to have his say as well. I thought his remarks were fair and appropriate, so I let the thread be.

When it finally degraded into complaints about the leaking roof, we realized we had let the thread go on too far, and the thread was closed. But it goes to show you, when you open the door just a little, someone will barge right on through it.

That's why this time, I just had a few minutes before calling it a day, and I saw ... yet another "let's talk about the vendors" threads. So I commented on it. I thought I was reasonably polite and I said my opinion on it. I didn't close the thread then, I only commented on it. But my comments get immediate rebukes and admonishment. It feels like a double standard to me. So yes I closed that thread in the end but only because it became about me. Well, I didn't start that, but I can and will end that, when it happens.

I am just one person in the hobby. I come to Canreef to learn more about my hobby, to see what others are doing, and to just enjoy in the camaraderie with others who share my interest in reefs. But because I volunteered to help with the administration of the board, apparently my actions must be beyond reproach. Well I'm only human folks. Expect me to screw up from time to time. I try to be polite to folks, and I only ask to be treated in kind in return.

I really don't know what more I can say here. I guess, midgetwaiter, I see your apology. I thank you for consideration that you put into this. Same for you, Scott. I honestly am a nice person in real life, at least I think I am. I try to be on friendly terms with all people and I try to keep my motives transparent. I apologize for being the big bad moderator and I apologize for not being able to keep on top of all things and when it was your workplace that was affected I apologize I wasn't able to get a lid on it sooner.

Peace to everyone. I hope.

[Tarolisol]

I think Tony's a nice guy
And I like Oceans as well.

[fishmanty]

Just a random thing to add:

Lots of people say bad things about a lot of stores in Calgary, but personally... thats never stopped me from going to them before... all it does is bring me aware that something may be overpriced, and its best to shop around to get the best deal for the best condition/size/etc...

I like to read what people have to say about the stores, because sometimes i share the opinions that are stated... but at the same time, it all has to be done with respect, keeping in mind that some store owners read this, and want to learn from what people say, instead of being offended by it...

Just my 2 cents...

Good work Mod's on doing your job tho, its nice to see a board that is well kept

[EmilyB]

I just wanted to say that I think you take things far too personally Tony. For all my response was worth, I was responding to the editor of a newspaper. I think it was a valid observation. And yes, I make the separation from the moderator to the friend. It is you who seems not to be able to do this.

Thank God there's something on this board once in a while to perk one's interest.