Making tank purchases when you're in a relationship

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Tax return...oh how I wish!

We've always paid taxes on my wife's job and my second job all in one shot so I never have a return.

Must say I felt pretty damn special buying my tank and sump recently. Most I've ever spent (lol...like ~ $200 total) without consulting first. I'm the sole bread-winner now so maybe I can sneak a few past her. Biggest issue is she handles paying the bills etc and I really don't want to...so she sees what I'm up to lol!