night light in reef

[BC_Grl]

I wholeheartedly agree Dez - and I can be picky about spelling/grammar! But why do it in a public forum? That only makes the environment less fun. And I would be less inclined to help someone who is always correcting me (hope my hubby isn't reading this! hehe). Or take advice he has to offer since he is a know-it-all anyway...

But why is it "Mr I am perfect" (do I need to name names?) that you seem to not want to help anyone, but criticize so much? Like you know it all and want to prove how little we all know. *I* am just starting, so I know I know very little. And you may have been reefing for quite some time, but you make yourself inaccessible because of your mannerisms. I mean, take your sig for instance: it says you don't give a d*m* about anyone else but yourself. I am not trying to be mean at all. Just trying to understand you and enjoy your posts more instead of dreading asking a question that you will knock down and I end up feeling stupid for asking.