Anenomes in a reef?

[ponokareefer]

I was wondering what peoples experiences on here have been with anenomes in a reef system. I have read a lot of "experts" articles on the subject, but was wondering what actual experiences were. Do carpets really eat anything? I have seen pictures of bta's in the middle of a bunch of corals. Do they not sting anything even remotely close to it? Have people experienced their corals being wiped out as an anenome "wonders" for a new home? I was really wanting to get an anenome, but are the "experts" correct in saying that it is a really bad idea to have an anenome in a reef?