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Can I play here too?? Sam, I agree....not sure how new sand will cause a spike. Also, if enough cured rock is placed in a 42g tank, I would feel adding fish to be a relatively safe act. I might not add 6, but I would have to see the tank/rock/etc to determine that.
I would also not add corals this soon, even with cured rock, although I think with proper knowledgeable monitoring, problems can be avoided.

Beverly, the people here are not so much flaming you, they're just passionate about caring about little fishies!
I agree that it is your tank and it's your decision what you'll put in it and when. You seem to have a plan in place to watch for problems and hopefully you won't have any. I think it is entirely likely you'll be OK. But please understand where the emotion comes from...it isn't hostility, it's concern for you, your tank, and the livestock in it. I think it's great so many people care.
Good luck!!