Urgent help please

[Coralgurl]

"He" was previously displaying typical Clarkii submissive behaviour to her up until this week. Even on Monday when I first noticed something was off with his fin, she would approach his side of the tank and he would do the shaky quiver thing up to the top of the tank, she would go about her business.

But there is only like an inch difference between them in size, so I guess I could have 2 females.

Re: feeding tank mates to their anenomes - REALLY??????? I did not know this. I've been buying a homemade frozen mix from Concept which has large chunks of meaty goodness in it, she'll grab the large bits and feed her nem.

She is approx. 3.5 years old, he's approx. 3 years old. I would think they are full grown at this point. The weird thing is, she is sharing the "new" nem with my occ clown, whereas before she'd chase it around if it got too close to her other nem.