How soon is too soon? dieing anemone! please help!

[kevNnic]

We i picked up a small RBTA a few months ago and he seemed ok for quite a while, never really grew and didn't move at all, seemed content! well over the past few weeks he has been closed up with no tenticles at all, and now his mouth appears to be gapping today, has not been good looking for sometime, i dont think they're is anything i can do to save him, wont eat.

Should i pull him before its too late and have my tank possibly crash or ride it out? also what the best and safest way if i do need to pull him, i feel awful doing this.

Someone could have him for free if they think they can save him!

please let me know asap

Thanks in advance

Kevin