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[JenniferL]

Sick sebae anemone. I have been in the hospital for the past 4 days because I went into labor, got home on Saturday and today noticed it not looking well. (Ended up having a c-section so its gonna be tough bending over to get into the tank.) Talk about great timing! Took a closer look and noticed its mouth open and it is shrunken a bit. Just wondering should I pull it out now before it gets worse? It sucks because I was so proud that I nursed it back to health. When I got it, it was bleached and about the size of the mouth of a cup but has since grown to the size of a dinner plate and was a healthy tan color with purple tips. I've had it for a little over a year.
If I do need to pull it out, could someone give me some tips of how to go about doing it. Thanks in advance

Tank param
pH 8.4
amm 0
Nitri 0
Nitra 0
alk 6.72 dkh ( low I know, but haven't been home to dose)
calcium 380
mag 1375
temp 78