I had lost a anemone before and upon more research on reef central they hard core carpet guys say never ever feed silversides, there too dirty/ contaminated of a food source for them. I only feed mine supra krill when I feel like it. My carpets are up to 18 inches depending on the day and I feed them broken pieces of krill.
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360 gallon sps reef, 180 gal sump, bubble king supermarine 300, 4xmp40Wes, 2 x 6215 tunze waveboxes, 4 ghl mitras
360 Reef Tank