i hear ya, its all a learning curve, so many different people have different opinions and it can be rather confusing.
Either way its looking good, im still cycling...

being i was a tard and purchase dry rock and mixed it was live rock. looks like im in for the long haul. Im in the middle of month two! ugh!
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65 gallon saltwater tank, 60lbs live sand, 85lbs live rock, 2 ocellaris clowns, spotted goby, Flame hawkfish, scopas tang, numerous corals