really sorry to hear about your son's problems, Mike.  If his life is affected to this degree, I have to agree with Brad's advice - try something different.  
 
A reptile cage would be nice and dry...  not as nice as a reef tank, I know, but that thing should be out on the front lawn with a "4 SALE" sign on it right now. 
 
Sounds like the fish thing just isn't in your story (for now?)...  Really wish you the best, and especially your son.  (Got 3 myself.) 
		
	
		
		
		
		
			
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