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Originally Posted by Leah
Bill,
You have already done so much for me.  You are saint, I know that we shall be friends for a very long time. And the wonderful support you have given already, to not only myself, but to others as well.  You are what good friends are made of. And thank-you for the incredible offer, to come back help me out, very sweet.
Thank-you, for the positive encouragement and best wishes for my mom.
So hard that she is so far away at this time, and I can not really do anything to help her deal with what must be the most devastating time in her life.  Our family has/is going through a devastating loss. Time will never erase what he has done for all his girls, my mom, my daughter and myself. And I never even got to say good-bye or to say how much, he is still needed. Payback is it exactly.  |
Hi Leah, You do get to say good by every time you think of him and in how you remember him this is how people honer the fallen with the good they have done. I can tell that you love your dad very much and you must keep him close to your heart this helps.. The payback is that you get to help look after your mom this will also help the both of you heal in the grieving process. As you sit and talk about random things over the coming years. Believe me my mom and I do this from time to time about my brother that passed in 97 and about my dad that has all-timers, it's good to remember the good times.
By the way you have many Friends on here that you can spill your guts out to in many ways. You are a very caring and carrying person your self and I know you would do what ever you could for others also.
As for why I am the way I am it's in my Genes I can't explain why I do what i do for others I just have to do it. I really don't care what it costs me to do it at the time I just have to I am compelled to do it. If you needed me to give you a hand and cry on my shoulder I would show up.. I will call again and see how you are doing in any case.
Remeber to think of all the good thing he has brought to your life and that he has lived a long and full life now is the time to help your mom pull through and get back on track with her life.
Bill