okay well I thought that I would give you all an update.
all live rock and fish (with the exception of my very cool 6 line wrasse are now out of the tank. the reason that the wrasse is not out is that I could not find him, I am guessing that he/she is under the sand as I have heard that they will do that as a defence manover.
I have taken all most all the rest of the water out of the tank and have two rubber made containers holding my live rock. The fish are in about 3 gal

of tank water in a home depot bucket and a heater (I hope that heater does not get to hot and melt the bucket and all happen again. The rock rubbermaids have a powerhead and heater in them as well.
I had a friend come over and we did get the tank moved

about a foot away from the wall so that they can get in there and clean it up, and I thought that they compression from the tank would not let water under it but it was very wet and I am glad that I moved it. so that it can be cleaned proporly.
I am still hoping that I can have someone fish sit for me as I am very worried about 6 fish (one of wich is a tang) in 3 gal of water

so if any one could lent some space in there tank that would be just great!
Now I have to book the carpet guys to come back and get that wonderful fish smell out of my new carpet.
well thanks to all that have let me vent my frustrations here, I have decided that I love my big tank to much to not set it up again, so I will working on that this weekend.
I will keep you all up dated as things change.