I thank all of you for your suggestions and will use them all.
This morning i FINALLY got her back on the deck to go potty..lol
I went out first and then used the most upbeat happy voice i could(im sure my neighbours thought i lost a screw or two) And called her out and she took a step out and then went back in so i called her again and she came out and i walked around the deck with her to show her there was nothing wrong and then sure enough she went...Funny how small things make you so happy
She did pee though in like 6 different spots so i wonder if with all the snow we got Sat/sun morning that her scent was gone and that freaked her out.
I agree that i have to stop feeling so sad for her. I do believe that she picks up on that. She has become VERY attached to me. She is right beside me at all times and she has inpeccable manners i just want to see her be the happy Aussie that i know she has in her.
I know everything in time it is just sad to see her sad.
Thanks again for everyones help i appreciate it