rex, you gotta relax man. just because he's educated and has a ton of information doesn't mean he's bringing the hammer down on you.
you'll get a lot of different advice when you post a question. and he does people a favour by putting up info that they maybe won't go and find by themselves.
almost everyone here means well - i'd be more worried about Pete saying "i really think you need one too" cause that sounds like pulling your chain...
take it easy
