still not the best pic, but here's a clearer one of just the damsel
based on the two blue damsel pics I found on liveaquaria.com I'm leaning more towards the blue Devil instead of the fiji one. The Blue devil says females are all blue, males have an orange tail. Since my damsel is 100% blue, I'd say that "he" is in fact a "she" and thusly she'll now be Mrs.Grumpy
I sure do love this damsel though, even if they are a dime a dozen. I'll figure out a way somehow of getting her to be nicer to my clown.