Yes its fustrating.
He's a very small CCB..toonie size.. maybe thats part of my problem. He's a tad thin, but not skinny or showing any signs of pinching.
The money doesnt bother me.. and if he wont eat here he wont eat at the LFS so I will not stress him out by trying to catch him and return him just so he can die there.
He will eat feather dusters.. but those were cleaned out of my tank the second day I had him. LOL I have even tried supergluing the ends of bloodworms onto a rock so they wiggle in the current. I know he isnt eating aptasia.. they are looking just fine
I stressed for weeks overfeeding my tank hoping maybe he would pick some food off the rocks if it settled. I gave up doing that after checking my nitrates. He will live or he wont.. its his choice.