Welcome to the jungle Kari. I'm still a "new guy" here as well. A great source of entertaiment, knowledge and spelling lessons...
Based on my experiences, forgive Tony for his occasional grammar "blunders" as he will surely remember yours, and gladly remind you of them...
I have little to offer in the coral trading department as well but a definate interest in purchases'...trading pets/wives ? Hmmm, I've never heard my fish complain I spend too much time lookin' at the wife
My fish have never awoken me (is that a word Tony?) in the middle of the night gaggin' up a "hairball" either...