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Originally Posted by MarkoD (Post 672939)

isnt marriage suppose to be "whats mine is yours, whats yours is mine"?

how can you people be spending money behind your spouses back and then lying about how much something cost?

i thought marriage was about full disclosure

Are you not married marko? If mine found out I spent $4000 on a light she would tell me that's it. So that's why a lot of us have to bend the truth a little or else we wouldn't be in this hobby. the money came from some where else before you start accusing me of stealing from her etc so it was my money! I know it's not right but I love this hobby to much :mrgreen:

I found splitting money releives alot of fights. Budget yourself some spending money, split it evenly. No one can complain either way. Teamwork is a wonderful thing in a marrage.

Our budget includes an allowance portion, it's spent on whatever we choose. My wife spends hers hanging out with her friends mostly and I hoard mine for new equipment! lol

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Originally Posted by waynemah (Post 673016)

I found splitting money releives alot of fights. Budget yourself some spending money, split it evenly. No one can complain either way. Teamwork is a wonderful thing in a marrage.

I agree!

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Originally Posted by waynemah (Post 673016)

I found splitting money releives alot of fights. Budget yourself some spending money, split it evenly. No one can complain either way. Teamwork is a wonderful thing in a marrage.

+1 my wife has hr hobbies i have mine i try to be budget minded to be cheap in what i purchase as to keep it even knowing my hobbies are way more expensive than hers. before i spend i have to make sure i have enough forour girls too. most important.

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Originally Posted by Parker (Post 673020)

Our budget includes an allowance portion, it's spent on whatever we choose. My wife spends hers hanging out with her friends mostly and I hoard mine for new equipment! lol

i have no in local friends just ppl i talk to online lol i have no life. in reality i told them allto bugger off. got tired of being used as cheap labour. with no help in return.. so i save alot that way lol.

all inall i cant complain my wife is amazing i wanted to cut up my 180 and turn it to a 120 that woud fit my exiting stand it was my wifes idea to do the 180.. last and final upgrade for this house. she did this knowing its going to cost more.. love my wife and to think we met online. saw each other 4 times in 4years 4th time was our wedding day. we got married to date lol

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Originally Posted by daveycoopa (Post 672974)

I saw him at red coral before, he looks kinda young so I doubt he's married but I could be wrong.

Can't hide anything here Doug knows what everything costs and can easily spot anything new.

lol no im not married. im in my early 20s

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Originally Posted by lockrookie (Post 673025)

i have to make sure i have enough forour girls too. most important.

Save enough for the energy drinks / coffee for when the teething starts!!!

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Originally Posted by Parker (Post 673055)

Save enough for the energy drinks / coffee for when the teething starts!!!

dude teething has already started drool and rosy cheeks thus hy im up so late these days

I thought it was "whats mine is yours and whats yours is yours"!!!