thanks for your posts I think the lighting may be the problem darn when I bought it I said what type of lighting i had but nothing was said I guess it's my fault as well should have researched it more.

The sebae is about the hardest to keep. Maybe a light upgrade or if you can bring it back or find someone who has good lighting. A BTA is a good starter anemone maybe give that a try. Is your sebea brown or white? or whitish? If I were closer Id buy your sebea....